Tag: Towanna

  • Professional Women and their Love Lives: Money and Matrimony Sometimes Conflict

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    I have become obsessed recently with trying to figure out how successful black women find a way to get it all done. Now, by “successful,” I’m not referring to the woman who works 70 hours a week while seeing all of her relationships die in the process. I am referring to the women who do some of the most important jobs in our society (nurturing children and maintaining their relationships) while finding success in their professional lives. Call me old fashioned, but I think that there is no job in the world more important than being a mother.

    This week on Financial Lovemaking, S. Tia Brown and I speak with Dr. Towanna Freeman, a life coach and women’s empowerment guru, about what it takes to maintain love, life and everything in between. We ask Towanna the hard questions about her business and her family and try to determine the formula for keeping it real and keeping it realistic.

    One thing that Towanna makes clear is that you don’t have to be perfect to be happy. She also reminds us that successful people are not successful all the time. The key is having the right mindset and always striving for success, whether you are feeling successful or not. I can personally say that I fail at roughly 90 percent of everything I do: But it’s striving for that last 10 percent which helps to set me apart.

    The interview with Towanna is below. Enjoy!

    Dr. Boyce Watkins is a Finance Professor at Syracuse University and author of the book, “Financial Lovemaking 101: Merging Assets with Your Partner in Ways that Feel Good.” To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered to your email, please click here.

     

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  • Triple Threat – Mother, Wife, Career Woman: What Does it Take?

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    An entrepreneur doesn’t think like everyone else. She is willing to take chances, disciplined enough to focus on a dream and passionate enough to pursue that dream. Towanna Freeman is in that category. AOL Black Voices had the chance to catch up with Towanna, to get some advice on striking out on your own, as well as managing a marriage, children and career, all at the same time.

    1) What is your name and what do you do?

    Have you noticed how so many people seem to be living an unbalanced life or living beneath their full potential? Well, I assist people, particularly women, who are ready to take life changing action to get that sense of balance back along with that greater feeling of fulfillment and happiness. I am also the principal consultant of Towanna Freeman & Associates, a management consulting firm with the primary emphasis on leadership coaching and employee performance improvement; the founder of the Young Women’s Empowerment Network a nonprofit organization that produces empowerment workshops, conferences, and other special events for teen girls; and the author of “Purposeful Action, 7 Steps to Fulfillment.”

    2) You are a successful entrepreneur. What does it take mentally to run your own business, as opposed to the safe route of working for someone else?

    Every entrepreneur has his or her own reasons for wanting to own a business. Some are drawn to the idea of financial and creative freedom, being their own boss, and being in charge of their own financial future. Others make the decision because they are dissatisfied with demanding bosses, office politics, or lack of recognition. Regardless of the reason, successful entrepreneurs share several common characteristics like confidence, determination, organization, self-discipline, and flexibility.

    3) You are a “triple threat” – wife, mother and business woman. What are the challenges that come along with juggling everything in your life?

    With all my successes, there has been a great sacrifice. My most challenging task is not allowing my determination and drive to cause me to spend every waking moment working and juggling the needs of my household. Having a balanced personal and professional life requires separating business demands, activities, and accomplishments from the rest of your life. To ensure that I stay committed to a balanced life, I build in an hour a day to relax and engage in pleasant activities. For example, I will stretch out on my sofa with my favorite magazine. I will put on my headphones and listen to my favorite music. I will eat lunch in the park. Finding a good balance between work and fun will help you meet the challenges of running your business and household.

    4) Why do you work to inspire young girls? Did you have a personal experience that led you to have this passion?

    Mentors have always played an important role in my life – even now as an adult. It was in 1997 when I was alarmed by a series of national and local statistics that showed startling trends surrounding the teen girls of America. The lack of organized youth activities in poor neighborhoods, the increased number of single-parent households, and families with two working parents all reducing the number of adult role models. So, as a response to the community demands for assistance, I founded the Young Women’s Empowerment Network (www.ywen.org) a nonprofit organization established to provide role models, resources, social and emotional help to teen girls. Through our programs and events, we are able to help them realize their full potential to succeed in life.

    5) Do you feel that Black women are respected the way they should be by the rest of America?

    If not, then why? Black women have been a crucial part of America’s history. Thankfully, the lack of respect from America did not hinder the Black woman’s steady progress and determination to achieve success. The Black woman’s history is a story of hope in the face of great obstacles. In my opinion, receiving respect from America is less important than receiving opportunities from America. It is through opportunities to achieve greatness that we create pride, self-worth and true life fulfillment. Today, there is a new generation of Black women that has flourished with remarkable achievements in academia, business, politics, and sports. Women such as Ruth Simmons, Ann Fudge, Condoleezza Rice, and Venus and Serena Williams. As I continue to achieve greatness, the next generation of Black women leaders that I influence is destined to reach higher heights.

    6) What are your plans for the future?

    Helping women and teen girls identify and effectively pursue personal goals to fulfill their lives is what I do – it is my purpose. I see my coaching practice and management consulting firm overwhelmed with success story after success story. And my upcoming book, “Purposeful Action, 7 Steps to Fulfillment,” was written specifically for women to aid them on their journey to living an abundant and purposeful life. Purposeful Action is not about merely making a New Year’s resolution or a vow – it is about setting goals for life and then acting upon them.


    Towanna Freeman is a Life Coach, Management Consultant, Inspirational Speaker, Author, Principal consultant of Towanna Freeman & Associates and founder of the Young Women’s Empowerment Network. For more information, please visit www.TowannaFreeman.com.

    Dr. Boyce Watkins is a Finance Professor at Syracuse University and author of the forthcoming book, “Black American Money.” To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered to your email, please click here.

     

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